In the dark and sweaty private rooms of Las Vegas and New Orleans’s upscale gentleman’s clubs, under the pretense of seeking gratification, Risdon discovered a secret: men were looking for more.

They were seeking support overcoming sexual neurosis, troubles with their partners, struggling to connect with women, involuntary abstinence, sexual dysfunction, and loneliness. What these men actually desired was guidance on how to create the authentic connection with women they knew was possible but could not reach on their own.

Since hanging up her heels, Risdon has been helping men cross the threshold into embodied self-leadership and erotic confidence as a surrogate partner, consent educator, and sex & intimacy expert. In addition to working one on one with clients, she also consults for tv, events and film.