making men
human beings again
Post-Patriarchal Sex & Intimacy Expert
AS FEATURED ON
The BBC
“You’re Doing it Wrong” Podcast
Slate
The world is moving on without men.
Men have been raised for a world that no longer exists. Women born after 1970 are living in an entirely different reality than their male counterparts.
Risdon supports men in deprogramming their internalized patriarchy and teaches them the relational and sexual skills necessary to foster authentic erotic authority.
Through practicing these skills with a woman of this generation men learn how to show up - not just as the man they want to be with women, but also as a human being.
Until a man is willing to become a traitor to his own internalized patriarchy
he will never have the sex or relationships with women he desires.
In the dark and sweaty private rooms of Las Vegas and New Orleans’s upscale gentleman’s clubs, under the pretense of seeking gratification, Risdon discovered a secret: men were looking for more.
They were seeking support overcoming sexual neurosis, troubles with their partners, struggling to connect with women, involuntary abstinence, sexual dysfunction, and loneliness. What these men actually desired was guidance on how to create the authentic connection with women they knew was possible but could not reach on their own.
Since hanging up her heels, Risdon has been helping men cross the threshold into embodied self-leadership and erotic confidence as a surrogate partner, consent educator, and sex & intimacy expert. In addition to working one on one with clients, she also consults for tv, events, and film.
Meet Risdon
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1:1
SUPPORT
Bespoke support for men navigating sexual dysfunction, queer women and trans people coming out later in life, overcoming naiveté (late in life virgins) and clients in the later stage of transmuting sexual trauma. Build sexual confidence, overcome performance anxiety, and develop relational attunement skills.
DEEPER:
THE COURSE FOR MEN
Learn how to last longer, have reliable erections and build the foundation to become a Master Lover.
6 weeks, self paced.
Coming Summer 2026